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I’m watching all these MMA training videos on youtube, with this coach who’s giving commentary, and he talks a lot about etiquette and ego. Like, when you’re sparring you’re supposed to hit your opponent lightly because you’re both just practicing your technique and so on, you’re not supposed to hit them hard. But I guess a frequent-ish problem is things escalating, this coach keeps talking saying things like “see this guy’s really great, he doesn’t let his ego get in the way, the other guy got a sneaky hit off there and this guy was friendly about it”, and he keeps talking in knowing terms about mild escalations. Like he’ll say “her opponent did X, so her next hit was a little harder, just showing him not to do that” and so on, where X is something (evidently) annoying.
So it’s like, an important aspect of etiquette is not hitting too hard during sparring, but also it’s expected that there will be these little minor breaks somewhat frequently. And I kind of wonder… is this kind of behavior a personality trait that’s being selected for among MMA enthusiasts, or is it inherent to the activity. Like, usually I’m an absolutely non-competitive person, I just don’t care about winning at things. And I don’t have this like, strong urge to punish slights against me, right, like in life if someone annoys me my default response is to ignore them, I don’t have an impulse to “return fire”. So would I do better, if it were me? Or is there something inherent to being hit a bunch, even lightly, that brings out the aggression in you? I suspect there might be. I suspect even I might, you know, bop a guy a little hard if he got me with a particularly sneaky move, it might just be part of human nature.
I don’t really know but it’s interesting to contemplate.
I don’t know about this kind of thing, but my understanding is that fighters, at least the “majors” (people who compete in the UFC and so on), tend to be hugely intense and competitive people in every way. They have a bunch of really bizarre rituals they do that are, I think, a reflection of this. A lot of people have pointed out that if you were raised by the Amish you’d probably be a fighter too.
This intensity extends into all areas of life, too – there are people in the UFC whose whole personality and character are about how much they just really fucking hate “unnecessary violence,” how much they hate “grudges” and “personal vendettas,” and how much they love “proper sportsmanship.” People who can’t “control themselves” and “can’t take a hit” are looked down upon. And so on.
What I’m getting at here is: maybe it’s not actually possible to be competitive at a very high level at a very high level (to do what it takes to be very successful in a very competitive field), if this means being competitive in other ways as well. (Maybe the Amish were right all along!)
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I used to do taekwondo and we had the same issue. I mean no one framed it in terms of ego like that, but the instructors...
bayesic-bitch said:
Also like, if you’re getting hit and not getting hits in, it can feel a bit humiliating, kind of an insult to injury thing. To watch somebody just very casually avoid and punish you. Plus the frustration of watching stuff just not work over and over. Anger is kind of designed for fighting, so it doesn’t seem too surprising to me that it comes out a lot in those situations, even if you know better
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bayesic-bitch said:
It’s very easy for this to happen, regardless of personality. Like you can know the etiquette, but when you actually get punched in the face it’s easy to get a bit angry and start going harder.
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